Fifi~Feeling is First
There are a lot of blogs out there that talk about how you should treat the women in your life in order to help them feel special, loved, respected and attractive. And I agree with a lot of them (some are a bit sexist, ignorant or are just bad).
But blogs for how to treat guys? Not so much. I know there are those out there that will say guys get too much attention as it is but I disagree. There are men and there are monsters; and too often the monsters get the attention. I’m talking about the good guys being made to feel special, comfortable in their own skin and desirable.
So a subtle reminder, guys like attention too. Attention not asked for nor attention only when we have performed some macho bullshit task. Just good old fashion making him feel like a stud (our sexy/pretty) or a super hero (our princess image). Making him ‘feel like a man’ once in a while can do wonders for a guy (mentally, emotionally and physically).
Just remember that every person is different so find ways that work for him. And don’t forget that what works for you may not work for him. I’ve seen too many women get confused over things like “but I tell him he is beautiful every day, why does he still have poor self image?” For many guys society has taught them that being ‘beautiful’ isn’t a ‘manly’ compliment (and for some it can even be an insult). But for other guys that might be perfect. So know the guy(s) in your life.
Don’t let the misogynistic, hateful, monstrous, assholes get all the attention not let them blind you to the fact that men are humans too.
(Source: beautflstranger)
